Friday, May 7, 2010

What a Taurus LOVES :)

since it's THAT time of the year,when our lovely,sensuous Taureans were born,let's focus on what makes them tick :)

1.Affection-hold their hand,kiss them ,cuddle and hug.Taureans need to feel the tangible,they need to lie beside a real person at night.Daydreamers are not their thing.And however much affection they get,they're always greedy for more of it!Focus on the neck area and throat,because those are their...uhh...g-points!! [kidding... Taurus rules the neck and throat,the larynx ,etc. of the body].Taureans are erotic creatures[no wonder they're so attracted to their opposite,sexy Scorpio!],and can always be coaxed into getting passionate about passion,and though they don't wear their hearts on their sleeves,they are extremely romantic.[has a Taurus called you "honey" gently? It's a feeling of bliss,not just because of their buttery soft voices,but also because you'll be hearing those words very rarely!And it's second only to the "honey" of the Scorpio male].Taureans don't talk mush ,but are pretty straightforward about "it"["kiss me honey,and see what happens"-linda goodman,on the Taurus male :P]. But they seek comfort and softness in love,in spite of their earthy nature.Remember,the symbol of Taurus is the baby[see older posts if you don't know],so they love being held and squeezed gently-which is often,the easiest ,and only way to break down their stubborn defenses- and don't seek a nagging,screaming,full-of-drama partner. Taurus wants exciting and sexy,but only up to a point!

Another thing about Taureans is that ,no matter how well things are going,they get bored.Settled into their comfort zone[which,in non-Taurean language,means they become indifferent].But don't get me wrong,Taurus likes the word "permanent" but only when they've reached 30 or so.Prior to that,they're busy giggling,flirting or scoring.They will [ok,the Taurus male will.The females are more sensitive] lose interest in things which they aren't concerned with.

2.Food- They like food.In fact,they love it.But only when it's rich and homey and perfectly cooked[Taureans have it in them to become food critics or gourmet chefs -I know because my mother's a Taurus and BOY can she cook!].So tons of comfort food makes these delicious darlings very pleased indeed! But they need to know where to draw the line,because Taureans have very robust digestive systems which rarely give them trouble when they overeat.So they should follow the rhythmic cycles of the earth while eating [cold in summer,hot in winter] because they are earth signs.

3.Money-It turns them on.They're practical people,and money looks good to them,because of the comforts it brings.That's why Taureans work-because money can buy them the lazy boy chair they recline in after a hard day's work,reading the stock reports and sipping beer with peanuts, after which they have a nice big meal [which,also,money buys] after which they sleep [like babies-pun intended.] in soft silk sheets[okay,maybe cotton-but i can bet ,not synthetic! Taureans only wear/use natural fabrics which feel good.Comfort comes first,bling comes later!],pillows of the softest goose feathers-all bought by money.

4.Nature- They're earth signs,[but they're more indulgent than the other two earth signs,Virgo and Capricorn] so they are very attached to nature,which can actually be therapeutic for them when their practical,money-making nerves take a toll on them.Being close to nature,and away from the urban noise and commotion, refreshes their spirit,just the way water and swimming rejuvenates the water signs, Scorpio,Pisces and Cancer.

Apart from that,your Taurus partner wants someone original,someone real,not phony.Taureans aren't complicated people,and are rarely interested in spending their valuable energy playing games.They are straight forward people,and while they do like a bit of mystery in their partners,they aren't the types who want people to mess with their heads!


Saturday, May 1, 2010

Cancer [the crab,not the disease :)]

Deep and sensitive they are,but Cancerians, belonging to the water element, may just appear to be snappy and crabby.It all depends on how YOU treat them,and the lunar calendar! Apart from the phases of moodiness and crankiness,Cancerians are funny[believe me ,they have the BEST expressions and The BEST stories to tell...or maybe it's just they way they tell them!] and motherly people to be around [even if they're men,they'll ensure you're well taken care of!].As for their moodiness and slightly temperamental nature,cancerians are like that only because CANCER reflects the feelings of those around her[cancer is a feminine sign]....so a rude and cranky person with bad vibes will be treated just like that-with a snap! And if you're being nice,and are still subject to the crabbiness,then blame it on the moon,because their moods and emotions are affected by the phases of the moon-so get an almanac and keep track of what the moon's up to.
Cancer is a Cardinal sign,which means they make good leaders.They may not be bossy,but they have that knack of directing people to follow their lead[ sounds confusing? Fixed signs[taurus ,scorpio,leo and aquarius],direct people-that is,delegate and organize,while Cardinal signs inspire people to follow them] with gentle advice and caring.They encourage and smother others,and make very devoted parents,and very possessive lovers[possessive-not jealous].
Cancerians are usually very very attached to their mothers,and families-and tend to cling on to old memories which they associate with the warmth and familiarity of home. There's nothing like Mama's cooking and love,and presence,and smile,and the way she tucks you in at night and the lullabies she used to sing you to sleep.[you can see that this could be a problem for future partners of a cancerian-living up to the image of "MAMA".]
The thing with Cancerians is,they may be loving and caring,but they won't love and care for every second person they see.Nor will they show kindness and sympathy to any odd stranger-but Cancer does indeed have a lot of sympathy for the orphaned[no Mama?!],the poor[no MONEY??!],the homeless[no HOME??!].Then again,Cancer doesn't like parting with money,so they may lack a truly generous spirit.Oh,did I mention they like money?Well,they do.And they usually tuck it away in banks,in the dresser,under their pillow,in a safe,etc,etc,etc.-but never,ever,do they throw it away like it's made of paper[which it is,but try telling them that.Go on,try.].Which is a good enough thing,because Cancer doesn't like wasting things or throwing away what has been earned with so much hard work.
Cancer likes seeing green,and i don't just mean the money.They enjoy,and are good at gardening.They also make good cooks,because they love feeding others and making them feel loved and happy.It's Cancer's way of giving back the love and appreciation they receive,because they can't be as warm and affectionate as their emotions make them feel[compared to fire and earth signs] because they belong to the water element,which,albeit deep,is a tad cold ,compared to earth and fire.Another reason they can't show love and appreciation is because they're suspicious that the love coming their way is not true,because they're not good enough,or pretty enough,or smart enough-and how can you respond to feelings which are not true[according to Cancer]? So Cancer needs to be told how lovely,funny,pretty,sweet,smart and good they are on a daily basis.
I have,in my experience ,noticed one thing about Cancerians which is contrary to their so-called,seemingly, "sappy" nature :They always give their best and use whatever strengths,assets,abilities and intelligence they have to their fullest.They have an indestructible crabshell spirit and determination which makes them braver and better than all the rest of us-only because they know how to push it and give it their all,which none of the other sun signs can.Not even Scorpio,Taurus,or Capricorn, with their steely will power and stubborn determination.
Just be good to them and take care of them.Even the men.Cancer loves being mothered ;) And tell them they're beautiful people-because they are.
Colours- Lavender,sliver gray,light green,pale yellow.